I have been a member of and mentor in New York City's BDSM and LGBTQ communities for well over a decade. I hold a Master of Arts (MA) in Psychology, a Master of Social Work (MSW), a Master of Education (MEd) in Human Sexuality, and a Doctoral degree (PhD) in clinical sexology.  I'm an LCSW licensed to practice psychotherapy by New York State and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST). 

I have a private practice in Manhattan, and I work with people across the spectrum of power role identification, gender expression, and sexual orientation, as well as those who are unsure of or evolving through identifications.

While my work as a therapist is my primary focus, I like to stay involved in academia, research, and outreach. To those ends, I am an adjunct professor at New York University, where I teach sexual health in social work practice; the founder of, a nonprofit listing of alternative lifestyle affirmative providers serving New York City; and a co-founder of the AltSex NYC Conference. I am also the creator and host of the talk show web series Kink Doctor. I have published articles in peer-reviewed journals, presented at conferences, lectured in universities, and conducted training in clinical environments on topics of gender diversity and non-mainstream sexuality. I am regularly quoted in the press as an identity and sexuality expert. 

I believe that encouraging sex positive outreach, education, empathy, and tolerance in mainstream communities is equally as important as cultivating self-acceptance and -actualization in all individuals, no matter how they identify or choose to live life.  For consultations or interviews, please fill out the form on my contact page, or email me directly at